Is it weird to want a relationship where you still have your own life?

Problem/Goal: Is it weird to want a relationship where you still have your own life?

Context:
As someone na hindi na actively dating, this somehow crossed my mind lately: What if I started dating again? Especially since I’m already in my “trentahin” stage, as everyone likes to remind me. 😂
But the more I think about it, the more I realize that dating is one thing, but sustaining a relationship is a completely different thing.
I’m wondering, may mga tao pa ba who understand that being in a relationship doesn’t mean your entire life suddenly revolves around each other?
Of course, once you enter a relationship, you have to commit. You have to make time, communicate, be present, and make your partner feel valued. I understand that.
But does commitment really mean you have to do everything together or always be available for each other?
At this stage of my life, I still want to have my own career, spend time with family and friends, pursue my own interests, and simply live my life. And I would want my partner to have the same freedom. Hindi naman ibig sabihin na kapag may sariling buhay ka, you love your partner any less.
Honestly, what I’m looking for is something pretty simple: a stable relationship, open communication, mutual understanding, and two people who are secure enough to know that they can love each other deeply while still having individual lives.
Especially at this age, we both have work, responsibilities, family, personal goals, and probably a million other things going on. I don't expect someone to make me their entire world, and I don't want to make someone my entire world either.
I want us to be partners, not each other's entire existence.
So, is this mindset weird? 😅
For those who are in long-term relationships or married, is it actually possible to have a healthy, stable relationship where you maintain your individuality and still feel deeply connected? Or am I expecting too much from modern relationships?

Thank you in advance to everyone who will share their thoughts and comments💕