Serious question: is it worth going out to make friends/relationship as an Indian man?

I am here since some years, speak good german and fit and friendly, and honestly have experienced so many times that people are just not interested in men from india. They don't ask us any questions, no curiosity except for "where are you from" "you work in IT right,,?" "You don't have Indian accent!!" Lol. I am aware of the negative stereotypes like we are scammers, creepy and don't shower but man how can this be applied to everyone?

I am always respectful and friendly, curious about others when I meet. No pressure if you don't vibe either me but this at my age has seriously gotten just worse.

I try to put my self out again and again but getting the same results. My Indian women friends say that its all in my head but all of them have a german bf and they make fun of Indans men all the time. So i please need some honestly anonymous feedback from you; should I go out to meet people or just focus on myself and accept that there is racism?