28 [M4F] Melbourne, Australia - Just want to find something genuine and authentic
Hey all! π
I'm a 28m from Melbourne Australia, based in the Eastern suburbs. I'm in a committed Long-term relationship of about 7yrs.. Not looking to change my situation or yours but I'm not afraid to put some effort in and catch feelings if I do find that one person I really click with. If I'm going to do it I want to do it right.
I haven't been truly happy and satisfied for at least a few years now and looking to chat with and make a connection with someone that leads into a long term affair π I want to find my person again, I miss the feeling of meeting someone and bonding over time on shared interests/passions, fun and flirty banter, cuddles and movie nights, phone/video calls that all of a sudden just go for hrs because we're enjoying eachothers company and yapping (which in the nature of what we're looking for I know that timeframe can be difficult) and so much more. Ideally someone from Melbourne would be great but I do frequently travel to Perth WA and would be more than happy to connect with someone there.
I do also highly value Communication and discretion
About me
Physically... I'm 6'6, bit of a dad bod, have been told I'm decently attractive with brown hair, blue eyes, broad shoulders. I take pride in my appearance and like to present myself well.
I'm very open minded, non judgemental and more than happy to lend an ear if you need to vent or trauma dump, what ever you need to get things off your chest I'm all for it. I love getting to know people from all walks of life, I enjoy sharing stories, experiences and life lessons, useless knowledge and random facts..
I have quite a few interests and I doubt I'll be able to think of them all right now but some of them are
* Music (Bit of a music nerd tbh, love and listen to a very wide range of music and used to learn guitar)
* True crime
* History
* Just recently been enjoying listening to Audiobooks too!
* Outdoor activities (nature walks, hiking, geocaching)
* Animals
* Movies (Historical, Disaster, Marvel, Based on True story films, Comedy, etc..)
* Video games (More of a casual gamer these days due to work but love to fire up the Xbox when I have some me time)
* Travelling
* Anything Paranormal
* Tattoos (Don't have any yet but love to talk about them)
* Also love a good old fashioned internet deep dive every now and then too
* I can also have a very quick wit and a dark sense of humour as well, I have been called a HRs nightmare before to give you an idea π ... by my own boss I might add lol
I am in time looking for a sexual connection as well but I'm not interested in discussing that side of it straight off the bat, I want it to happen naturally. But I am very Kink friendly and would love to have someone that I can explore with as that's something I've never really had a chance to do, but rest assured I won't be sending anything NSFW until we get to that stage together first, I do want someone that I can call a friend first and foremost before all that, just makes that experience so much more close and personal and that's exactly what I and hopefully you need too
What I'm looking for
Just to set the record straight here, I do not have any preference on body type, age (18+ obviously), nationality, or anything like that.. I just want you.. the real you, I want to give you the safe space to let you unapologetically let out your true self and I want to help that side of you shine brighter than it ever has.. because in my eyes that's what true beauty is all about β€οΈ
I'd love to find someone who
* Loves being affectionate
* Is Caring
* I don't mind if you're clingy as I honestly find that quite attractive
* Sex wise a high libido would be good as I have the same
* Loves to cuddle
* Must have good OPsec
* Is open minded and loves in depth sometimes random conversations about about life and literally anything else that comes to mind
* Loves to receive Good Morning/Night messages and little check ins during the day!
If you've gotten this far I do appreciate your time in reading this through!
Dms are open! Please don't be afraid to reach out. I've put a lot of thought and effort into this so please introduce yourself! I look forward to hopefully hearing from you soon. Can't wait to get to know you!
Posted Aug 29, 2026, 1:27 PM UTC