I thought I had feelings for one guy but I think I have just met a guy for the first time that I could like even more.

I am early 30s f and just feel like I need to process this and maybe get some advice.

I have been interested in a guy for a few months now. He is introvert and laid back.

But I have just met a guy for the first time yesterday through a male friend, both early 30's. He is similar in looks, similar personality to the other guy. But more upfront and seems more proactive and likes cleanliness, organisation which is a big thing for me.

He has a job and drives, unlike the other guy. He was actively asking questions to get to know me. He has been single for a long time though. He opened up about his dating experiences with me, even though I only just met him.

I was looking at him enough to notice his eyes were bright blue like the sea. I don't make a habit of looking into other guys eyes as much as last night. Even when I was with my ex.

We had some similar opinions on life and mutual interests.

I don't know what to think or do. I didn't get his contact info though and I feel awkward to ask my friend for his contact info. Or if my guy friend would be upset or annoyed at me. We made plans to meet as a group again soon.

Posted Aug 29, 2026, 1:29 PM UTC

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