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Help?🤔

So....I (28 NB) have been noticing i need more in my relationship with BDSM lately....and my BF (28 M) may have difficulty being able to fulfill my needs in certain situations and I'm a little worried about it

Context: We have been together for 5 years and we have talked about possible dynamics outside of our relationship before, but never really tried it before (we have had play partners before and tried dating a couple. But that was done together)

We are open and have ground rules for dating potentially other people and hookups

But since I've been on Testosterone (a little over 3 months now) I've noticed the itch to try more things outside our relationship

For Example: I've noticed a want to actually try more in depth bondage and possible suspension, but we don't have that capability rn and I want to genuinely explore it with an experienced person

SO....

How do I talk to him about wanting to expand my exploring and trying of different dynamics with other people, wo making him feel like I'm saying he isn't enough....but instead that I'd like to pursue different types of dynamics that benefit all of us and help me feel more satisfied in myself?