Anyone else hate men during pregnancy ?

It makes me so mad that men just get to reap the benefits of a child but don’t have to get up to pee every 30 minutes when they’re pregnant, have chronic rib and back pain, attend a baby shower, sacrifice their body for 2 years to grow child and also feed said child.. and they don’t have to worry about legit everything. I already feel like I’ve carried so much of a burden and she’s not even here yet. No help or input about the registry. Not really any input about what to name her. Like how can he think about ANYTHING other than this child??? I’m not even my own person anymore at this point. Just an extension of my baby. Not a minute goes by where I don’t think about her. It’s so frustrating to see the difference between me and my husband. And it makes me scared that in 7 weeks when I give birth to this child, he won’t be prepared at all for how hard it’s gonna be. Anyways. That’s all🫠