Finally tried to open up and got blamed instead 🥀 ( and then my parents wonder why I wanna live away from them)

TW: mention of SA

Around a month ago, my family was discussing visiting one of our relatives and I had already mentioned that I will not be going no matter what. But I guess they did not take me seriously, today they were finalizing the plan and asked me to finalize all the clothes I would take there. Again , I firmly mentioned that I am not going no matter what. And this is how my drama Queen mother started a fight. And of course she asked why I was not interested in going and I told her that I do not like that relative's son and she asked me why..

And I finally opened up about the incident that took place around 10 years ago when the entire family of that relative came to visit us for a week. I was sleeping wearing an oversized and long t-shirt that worked like a frock for me when the f****** son of that relative touched me down there with too much force and I woke up in shock. And the audacity of that f*****, he was still standing beside me laughing as if he didn't just a sa me. I got angry and slapped him and everyone heard that sound. The asked me what happened and I told them. And guess what? He just got scolded and my mom told me to wear pajamas. And not just that, my mother told this incident to a few of our other relatives. She never got ties with that relative and consequently, I was post to see him at every family gathering even though I hate him from the very bottom of my soul. I always made sure to avoid him as much as possible.

And today when I finally opened up about this incident, told her how much I hate him because of that, and how I hated her for not taking a stand for me, scolding or beating him or at least teaching him how wrong he was, and how much it affected me that she just told me to change cloth instead of making sure that I stay protected at least inside my own home. And guess what she did? She started blaming me instead, how I am trying to drive her away from her loved ones, and how I actually share 50% fault because of my clothes and many more things...

I mean how can you give birth to a daughter and then not even ensure her safety and continue to love the relative who assaulted your daughter ( and not just that, you are literally forcing your daughter to visit that very relative) ..

My mother be doing things like this and my spineless father never taking a stand and then these two people get mad when I tell them I will live alone in future, away from them...