Accidentally came in public

51, first experience at 30, occasionally bi for nearly 20 years, exclusively with men over the past couple years and really only recently started being more out and dating men. It's still a process but I'm getting there. Couple nights ago I went to a hotel bar by myself, which is uncommon, just to see if maybe I could meet someone either for a hookup for maybe just as a someone I could see again.

After an hour-ish, I saw a guy walk in - he sort of scanned the bar and took a seat on the other side of the couple next to me. When they left, he moved over and we started chatting, just about regular things - the bar in general, sports, etc. He was my age-ish, which I like, not exactly my type but easy to talk to.

At one point he asked if I was staying at the hotel, and when I told him I wasn't he said, oh that's too bad. I said, yeah maybe if I was I'd run into you again, and he told me that he wasn't staying there either. He told me again that it was too bad one of us wasn't staying there, and gently put his hand on my leg, under the bar.

We just continued talking like that, with small and gradual physical touches. I sat back in my seat and put my arm on the back of his stool, then moved it to rest on his back. He'd lightly massage my thigh, things like that. Nothing overt, and nothing aggressive. This went on for an hour or so, I was tired and had to head out, so he got an Uber at the same time and we walked out together.

Along the way, there was medium sized side foyer in the hotel, with pay phones. It was open but empty and he drifted in that direction and took me with him. As soon as we got through the door to some degree of privacy, he kissed me. Again it was gentle but his hands ran over places they hadn't before and my hand was on the small of his back and the back of his neck as we softly made out.

This lasted maybe 45 seconds and we said goodbye and went out separate ways, and when I got in the car I realized that my underwear was soaked. Best non-sex I've ever had.