A guy said he wants casual relationship but now even doesn’t text me in a week so is this how casual works?

Hi everyone,

I had never had a casual relationship in my life before I was in a committed relationship which didn’t work out and I broke up 1.5 years ago and didn’t want to rush into another relationship.

For the first time in my life I downloaded Hinge and I like this guy we start speaking he gives me attention floods me with it in fact but like okay I am a child of separated parents in the last 1 year they separated so I got emotionally clingy maybe.

But anyways he says it’s gonna be a monogamous casual relationship and I tell him openly I have never had this for ref am 23 and he is 26 my body count before him was 1 and his before me was 9.

The first time I actually meet him idk what it was like I actually don’t know but I got drunk and I don’t get drunk easily but I did not know my capacity and I actually got drunk and it ended with him kissing me and then saying it’s enough for the first date and I remembered it the next day and told him bro this isn’t how it works.

But anyways guys me dimaag se gadhi hu theek hai like legit gadhi and he even lied to me about his name and everything which I myself figured out 3-4 times later he didn’t tell me I confronted it but he said it was hinge so he wanted to keep his privacy bla bla.

But guys me chutiya hai I swear me chutiya hu bcoz for him casual sex wasn’t a great deal for me it was still when I tell him I am not turned on then he turns me on and he asks me whether I want to do it and I tell him I need time to think so he tells me Itni der se Soch rahi it means you wanna do it and we end up having it now things go a certain way that I start getting attached to him.

Last week I text him ki we haven’t met from 12-13 days and he is like bla bla Lets meet today anyways my goal is to meet him outside like go on dates and I clearly told him that for me it’s gonna be a relationship but then he tells me about his ex fling whom he was thinking and chatting to but tells me since he wants to be honest with me.

I am a really emotionally available person and I really wanted him to cope with it and I actually helped him gave him genuine suggestions even if it meant me getting sidelined.

Then he tells me he doesn’t wanna burn the bridges since she is permanently moving to US so she can be his ticket to get the visa and live there as well if he married her.

Now he says he is being selfish but this is survival instinct and I clearly tell him it’s hurting me but I won’t stop him from doing what he wants.

Apparently then he says things like u r genuine and the tallest girl I ever dated bla bla but goes MIA after that like I asked him on Monday if he is doing okay and he tells me his emotions and I tell him to not dwell since she has left in fact I even motivated him to keep his self respect aside and contact her again one last time.

But has he forgotten me ? Like idk I am clearly attached to him he said he will become serious after a year and am just idk man matlab mereko samajh hi Nahi Raha lol.

Yesterday also I reached out to him that should we meet and he is still on hinge and like he said he was missing his family which is okay not feeling good again fine and wants to go solo trip i suggested him to go back to his hometown if he is missing his faamily like I am also missing my dad but like I understand I might deal with emotions separately but there are just so manu things I did for the first time for him and I just dont know at this point.