Kinks and limits!

First I’ll include a little explainer for two of my primary kinks, just to avoid confusion and to give you a more nuanced picture, then follows my favourites and general kinks.

Casual and internalised misogyny

This might seem like a daunting thing to understand at first, but breaking it down makes things a little more approachable. Internalised should be apparent, simply an internalisation of the misogyny. Casual, same as it would in casual sex refers to the emotional investment into the misogyny, from primarily the women. It doesn’t become a huge emotional toll for the women. I don’t want the misogyny to be something that men do to women, hence I structure the kink this way, an almost woman-led misogyny that isn’t really about the men, as much as it is about the setting as whole. You should be able to feel lighthearted and almost teasing undertones in the misogyny, like a woman responding to the request of sex in a slightly sarcastic tone, “Hm? Oh. I mean, if I wanted to have any say in that, I really should have considered that before being born with a slit between my legs.”

This casual \*unfairness\* and kind of inherent injustice is what ties a lot of my kinks together, especially the next one. \*Unfairness\* as a whole is generally a great way to understand the tone of these kinks.

Pleasure denial

It should be self explanatory, I mean, it’s kind of in the name. Pleasure denial should be inherent to the world, this could be through biology, maybe in this world female pleasure just never evolved? Female pleasure could simply not have evolved in this slightly alternate world, or if it’s a fantasy world it could be the result of some ancient magical cataclysm. It shouldn’t be something done to a woman, and it doesn’t shouldn’t be a punishment

Women are of course used to this world, “Are you trying to make me cum or something? Go on, take me, I can handle it…” wouldn’t be something you’d be amiss to hear from a woman, teasingly, of course. If you’re trying to make it pleasurable for her, then you’re the weird one, hell if you asked her how it feels she might just look at you with a weird expression and a puzzled “What? Bad? I don’t know?” Naturally these are just \\\*some\\\* of the reactions, they’d depend on attitude, personality, and dynamics. The actual extent of pleasure denial can vary from simply dulled, to little to no pleasure, to just a slight discomfort even.

The exact extent of the denial is up for discussion, so women feel little to nothing? A numb nothingness? A slight discomfort? Maybe they do feel some pleasure, but not much?

Important note: pleasure denial is not about edging or orgasm denial. Those kinks both have names, and I would have used them if that was what I meant.

Age-play

Just a brief forewarning. I enjoy AP and personally don’t have any strict limits around the kink. However, I’m not here to make people uncomfortable and understand it’s not for everyone. I prefer being upfront about this kink, because it allows people to say no openly, and for that to be respected. If you are into AP as well please do mention it to me, along with any limits you might have around it. The particular ageplay I prefer is where the male character is younger, it feels less exploitative to me, I guess.

Favourites

creampies, impreg risk, free use, casual sex, emotionless sex, pleasure denial, quickies, casual nudity/light clothing, lactation, the casual use of words like “rape”, breeding, nonchalant/disinterested sex, casual misogyny, age-play, unfairness, younger guys, one sided pleasure and lighthearted raceplay!

Kinks

name calling, clothed/semi-clothed, groping, light hearted degradation and humiliation, realistic sizes, casual nudity/light clothing, groping, awkward sex, coercion, obligation, con and dub-con.

Limits

Mommy dom, milfs, pet play, orgies, torture, sadism, mean misogyny, toilet stuff and filth.