Being ugly makes me not feel like a woman (socially)

Like not only do I look like a man but I feel like one because every girl I've ever known ever they just talk about men.

Im literally in college and when I had friends all they talked about was the guys they were talking to. When I said anything about hobbies they tuned me out or literally turned it into something about a man.

I thought this was just like, a male centered woman thing but tell me why even the LESBIAN FRIEND I HAD did this. Only talk about relationships. Ignored me unless I mentioned my shitty ex(because its the closest thing i had to a relationship).

Like I literally feel so out of place