30M Melbourne S/E suburbs looking for a discreet AP

Married man keen on finding a discreet and meaningful connection with someone understanding. I have heaps to lose doing this, but the risk is worth finding someone to share intimacy with and connect with. The risk is worth it if it means finding someone to share something amazing with.

I am in a vanilla marriage and very sexually frustrated. Even though I can't take the frustration anymore, I still want to keep my marriage contained. I like the slow burn of getting to know someone and need to build trust before jumping into anything.

I'm a fit 30yr old white male with brown hair and brown eyes, 180cm, 72kg. I have a good career, love going to the beach, hiking, just about everything outdoors and I love animals. I enjoy long talks, vulnerability, and taboo. I'm quite open minded and want to experiment. I would try anything at least once.

Thanks for reading and I hope we can connect(:

Also, to all the naysayers...I hate to be blunt but your opinions mean very little to me. I've already made up my mind about this.