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The eye contact thingy

Need Advice :snoo_thoughtful:

I went to a wlw & allies event few days ago and when I got there, there was a girl caught my eyes and she also noticed me
Since there’s several tables, she arrived earlier and her table was full alr. So I sat at the other one, I can tell that she wanted to talk w/ us cuz she turned her body towards our side
Then later she got to came to our table and talking with whole group, she was sitting the opposite side of me, so I’m facing her. While she was introducing herself and telling her life story, she kept looking at me and hold longer eye contact w/ me. (Idk if i am delulu)
And later we also keep bumping into each other in different group setting

I’ve never meet women romantically irl, usually through online dating faded to friends, or I see them as friends at the very beginning.
I don’t hv enough experience of dating women, but based on what I’ve heard, lesbians flirting with eye contact and they could not say anything the whole night but it could still means they’re interested in you?? So if she’s interested in me or she’s just being nice 😭
We work in the same area so I’m thinking to ask her out tho…if I catch the signal correctly💀

Posted Aug 31, 2026, 2:18 AM UTC

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