I have been single my entire adult life.

I am not even exaggerating when I say I have been single my entire adult life. But what really baffles my mind is that I personally feel I am an above average good looking young man. I have a six pack and a nice physique because I hit the gym consistently, and even my personality I get along with so many people, never judge people, always show love to people, even have fed homeless people etc, I have an amazing job as a defense technician working on class 4 radiations so I make extremely good money. I don’t think that my energy is bad or even that I’m an ugly looking dude. But I genuinely think people are just to afraid to approach me. And what makes the matter even worse is that I am bisexual and I find both men and women very attractive. I have had people tell me that they thought I was either already taken or that I get compliments enough and that was the reason I never got approached.

But it hurts. Because I get extremely lonely. Especially knowing that I am open to both genders and still single irks me.

I have been bold and tried to hit on guys that I thought were attractive just to find out that they are already married or in a relationship. Some have even told me that if they were single or if that they were gay they would definitely have given me a chance and me finding them attractive caught them off guard because I was good looking and they never would have guessed I liked men. But I don’t know how to openly express being attracted to men because I don’t act like a woman youknow like I’m not feminine that’s just not my thing. And even with women. I have approached women in a respectful manner in public or online and every single time they are either taken or don’t have time for a relationship.

I just don’t know what to do anymore to be honest. I’ve given up on even trying to find someone. It sucks because I genuinely want someone to love me and touch me and hold me and go places and enjoy holidays with someone.

But maybe I’m just meant to be single.