do you like breaking down kinks?

everyone has their own niche and somewhat specific or random kink or fantasy but it’s usually triggered by something, maybe something growing up or something significant in general that they experienced. I feel like these are the reason for most of my kinks when I reflect on them they was shaped by things that happened in my life I never really chose my kinks.

I feel bad about them a lot but as I said it’s not like I chose them so I shouldn’t feel so bad but it’s easier to say be accepting than to actually accept things