“If we met under different circumstances, would you date me for free?”

lol if we had a dollar for every client that asked this, we’d be financially well to retire from the industry.

Question to clients: Why do you ask this? It’s torture. If a sex worker is interested in dating you for free (client or meeting organically), you’d know without a doubt. My other question is.. when you ask, do you ACTUALLY want an honest answer or just looking to be told what you want to hear?

Usually this questions comes from clients who are 30+ years my senior, already married, have kids my age, not attractive at all, don’t make enough to support me, have a porn addiction/ED, bad hygiene, or other issues that clearly don’t make us compatible. Or it comes from clients who don’t book enough, or actually try to get to know me.. they know nothing about me but imply they could see a future. I genuinely get stuck and don’t know how to answer. I don’t want to ruin a fantasy they paid for, but also don’t want to give clients false hope and it end ugly.