Bf is not communicating with me

Im supposed to visit my ld bf on the 6th of this month but we've been having so many issues between us. He hasnt been honest about certain things he ignores how I feel we go days without talking he'll express how much he wants to be with me and how he doesnt want our relationship to end but he does things that really dont make it seem that way. He was texting with a coworker he previously had feelings for and I still dont know ehats going on with all of that. I feel so alone and so confused. I keep wanting to just leave because im so hurt and he seems to be fine with us not talking. He says he wants to fix things when I go and visit but how am I supposed to visit if we havent even had a conversation about it?? I dont know im just so confused And have no idea what to do...