[26 M/F Newlyweds] Deep into the interracial fantasy, intense dirty talk, and taking our first steps toward real life

Hey everyone,
I wanted to jump on here and share where my wife and I (both 26, recently married) are at with our fantasy, and hopefully get some feedback from the community.

Over the past few months, the interracial theme has become a huge part of our sex life. We watch a lot of interracial porn together while we fuck. In fact, she is a massive fan of actor \\\*\\\*Damion Dayski\\\*\\\*—whenever his videos pop up, she clicks on them right away and gets super turned on by his scenes.

Her dirty talk during sex has gotten extremely intense, and she constantly makes allusions to black guys in our everyday life. During sex, she drops phrases like:
"I want a well-endowed black guy so bad."
"Imagine you coming home from work and catching me getting fucked by a big black guy while you stroke yourself."
"Bring me a black bull, I want him to take me right in front of you."

It doesn't stop in the bedroom. In our daily routine and when we're out in public, she makes subtle comments or teases me on an ironic tone whenever we pass a black guy, saying things like "Look, check him out over there."

We've also started taking concrete steps into real-world exploration:
I recently bought her a short, super sexy black dress and a sexy Victoria's Secret thong to feed into the excitement.

We went to a sex shop together to check out and pick black dildos.

We recently tried going to a swingers' club. We got turned away at the door because of a dress code issue, but the mindset and the decision to go were definitely there.

We're at a point where the verbal play and virtual side are at an absolute high. For a young married couple our age, how did things evolve for you at this stage? Would love to hear your thoughts and advice!