Ok so I took your advice guys

And it helped greatly 😁. Even though most of you trolled me 😑. I was able to rizz up a female intj, and it's going pretty well. Slow, but well. She finds me interesting, and slowly she's getting more comfortable and teases me a lot, and actively chooses to spend time with me at work when there's literally hundreds of others she could choose.

What I find interesting is usually when I rizz up a women, there's instant feedback and it's kinda easy to tell if you are hitting the right buttons. Everything is much, much more subtle with her, and it's been extremely satisfying to slowly see her get more comfortable, even with me getting closer to her and breaking touch barrier, I really thought I was going nowhere with the ni babble I was doing, and teasing, I avoided flirting like you guys said, and I didn't say anything dirty, although now I'm slowly getting her used to it lol. But honestly I like how this feels, it feels natural, and not chaotic.

So yeah just wanted to give my feedback from the advice I got, which ultimately was, just have real conversation, and try to engage ni which isn't hard because it's my main too, although due to so much engagement with sensors I don't engage in it often, because it's confusing to most people. Anyway thanks from your infj brethren, and anyone else trying to rizz up an intj, here's my tips; be patient, be real, DO NOT LIE, avoid flirting early, mild teasing helps but don't overdo it, and if they like you they will spend time with you and if they don't they won't, and if you ask how they feel they will likely tell you.