Raceplay is more than JUST slurs
No doubt you had loads of messages already. Some of them awful…some of them worse.
I have irl Raceplay experience (used to date a Nigerian girl who was into very extreme Raceplay).
Raceplay is more than just slurs. It’s power exchange, it’s diving into an extremely sensitive and taboo topic and utlitizing that to add an almost forbidden layer of excitement to any sexual play. May that be online or IRL.
I don’t want this post to become incredibly long, but suffice to say that: yes, calling slurs is often part of Raceplay, but the core is a way deeper emotional and mental “game”.
More than happy to have a chat about it. Feel free to ask me anything.
I’m male 36, white
Posted Sep 1, 2026, 4:39 PM UTC
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