Help a shy girl

Hi everyone,

*sorry this ended up longer than I planned on*

I've been lurking here and "studying" some platforms for about a month. I'm SO drawn to camming and video chatting, etc. I am curious and have been wanting to make sure I go into it for the right reasons.

I'm very sexual Scorpio, have fun flirting, and love exploring the sexual side of who we are. I remember toying with the idea of stripping in my younger years just because it seemed like fun and made me curious.

And lets face it, I have debt that my vanilla job just ain't going to pay off. I'm 40 and have seen many of you 40+ that seem so encouraging.

I'm managing expectations of income from reading all of your posts, etc.

HOWEVER, my biggest concern is that I'm a little shy at first. Then when I get going, I'm a flirty/tease and my sexual side comes out.

Anyway, I'm wondering if I should stick to something like NiteFlirt to begin with before trying a bigger camming "room" feel? However, it seems like those who make the best money are in full cam sites.

I made accounts on Phrendly and NiteFlirt but haven't really "dived" in. Mostly just some texting and sexting on Phrendly a little bit, and creating my listings on NiteFlirt.

Also, how often do you get men actually looking for a GF experience. I have some guys on Phrendly that seem to just be texting, looking for company, but I can tell that it's not leading anywhere further.

I'm taking the full on plunge and diving into Phrendly and NiteFlirt this weekend, opening myself to the video calls, but debating another platform.

So, advice for us shy girls? Should stick to something like NiteFlirt to begin with before trying a full camming room?

Thank you all! You've really inspired me.