40/M/CST - want a male friend?

I want to preface that i am in the market for a female friend, and not for anything more than a friendship close friends, hopefully but lets start at step one.

Well as the title says, I'm 40, M, from central US time, prefer to befriend someone from the US (just easier, no offense). I AM married, not ever looking to change that. More family details can be talked about later. I'm a mechanic by trade, a metalhead, pc gamer, my humor is dark, goofy, sometimes dirty. I can be a bit reserved but if we chat often it'll all open up.

Im kinda looking for someone who might also game, w/ me or just along side. Like in the same discord group and just shooting the breeze. I can list the games I'm playing, but its mostly co-op survivals and milsims. Not CoD.

I get it, if convo isn't your thing or have no intentions of continuing just say so. I've been ghosted too many times and by really promising personalities that after a while it just numbs you. If you feel like I'd be someone you'd befriend, please respond.