I need adive on this.. habit? Tick? Idk

So for context im autistic as we probably can tell because of where this is posted. And anyway i shake my hips alot when cumming i roll my hips in and then after when i touch just the bit longer my hips go side to side and this is relevant because i have a long distance relationship and when we meet and fuck for the first time i dont want him to be annoyed by it so i wanted advice on if i should try breaking the habit now or if he might like it i know everyone is different so i might just ask him but i also haven't posted in a bit so idk 😐