I want my good relationship with Mary Jane back!!!

Hi everyone, no judgement please
I have been a stoner for about 3 years now, I only smoke after work in the evenings and really not that much ie. less than half a joint a day
As of late, the past 6 months or so, when I smoke in the evenings it almost completely strips me of any drive I have. For example, if I know I need to fold laundry and finish building my bookshelf after I do my normal routine in the evenings... I simply can not find the will. I have started a new job which is very stressful and I am spread a lot thinner than I usually am but I can usually motivate myself until I pick up a bong. After I've smoked I simply want to chill out and relax and I can do everything else tomorrow, the only issue is I have about 4 weeks of tomorrow's that I have been postponing so now I'm overwhelmed by what I've been putting off.
It's also not always housework or projects, I have been wanting to get better at my hobbies or do more research about hobbies I want to start but the joint tastes like I want to sit on the couch with a cup of tea and just rot.
Has anyone gone through something like this before?
I don't want to stop smoking, I enjoy it and it doesn't hinder me from living my life and I can function totally but lately I feel like it's getting the better of me which is not what I want
How did you snap yourself out of it?