🆘 hadchi bzzf shi hel

To sum it up: I met a girl, and honestly, whenever I’m with her, I feel terrible. It feels like I’m the only one putting in all the effort while she constantly holds back. Whenever I ask her about basic things, she just says, "No, that's private, sorry."
She takes her anger out on me all the time, and sometimes she even tells me, "You’re not a real man." As for nice words, I swear to God she has never said a single one. The problem is that she claims she loves me, yet she acts so cold towards me. If I don’t reach out to talk to her, she won’t even bother talking to me. Honestly, it’s pure mental torture.
Whenever I try to tell her, "You’re doing this and that to me," she flips it back on me and says, "You’re doing way worse than that," likes my message, and leaves without giving me a chance to explain. Or she just says, "Fine, goodbye, bye." Honestly, I'm really suffering. On top of that, she had previously ended the relationship and then came back again.
To be honest, I can't bring myself to end things with her—it feels like something is holding me back. Please, I just need a solution without any criticism, I swear!