Genuine question: how do people even meet anymore?

Girls, genuine question... how the hell are you meeting guys? πŸ˜­πŸ˜‚

I'm 29F and I've never dated before, so I genuinely don't even know how this whole thing works lol. My routine is basically work β†’ home β†’ work β†’ home. Weekends are usually spent with family, and occasionally I'll make plans with my girlfriends after work.

I also don't post on Instagram, so there's basically zero chance of someone randomly sliding into my DMs πŸ˜‚ And dating apps honestly feel a little intimidating when you've never dated before.

So... where are you actually meeting men? 😭 Through friends? Work? Hobbies? Dating apps? Do you just go out and somehow magically encounter single men in the wild? πŸ˜‚

And for the girls who started dating later, HOW did you even start? Because at this point I feel like everyone else got a dating instruction manual that I somehow missed πŸ˜­πŸ˜‚

Posted Sep 2, 2026, 12:43 PM UTC

28
Loading comments…