This is not for people who want to get back with their ex!!!

Does anyone else feel like they (person A)were a total push over in a relationship and when they started standing their ground and saying, “hey you lied to me” or were disrespectful etc. to the other person (person B) and then person B will start lashing out because you cornered them and want them to own up to their negative actions

I say this because it feels like such a double edged sword… on one hand of course you love this person that’s why you put so much energy into them but on the other hand they are hurting you. It’s such a weird back and forth because you find pleasure in helping them but when you turn around and look in the mirror you see yourself looking tired, stressed, and over all deteriorating because they are no good for you

Not really looking for a whole psychological therapy speech lol more or less just looking for other people who relate.