Daddy looking for his girl (Age 18+)
28 [M4F]
A structured, unapologetic strict Dom looking to turn/train a person into a good Sub
**About me and what I'm looking for**
I am an 28yo Entrepreneur with a masters from London , I'm a person who's driven by exploration, depthness and who loves so many things A few of them are MMA, Weightlifting, Dancing, DJing, Running, Music, Content, Books, Emotional psychology; I am a good listener and I'm always thriving to get better, To live with purpose.
I've always been the kind of guy who likes being in control; It's a part of me.
Which lead me to interest in bdsm, S/m dynamics few years back; Since then I've been understanding, exploring everything about it from physical to psychological to emotional expects. Reading books, talking to people who have similar interests, training people into submissiveness.
Being in control and dom is not a mask or act or character I'm playing, It's a part of me.
**Kind of a Person I'm Looking**
I'm looking for a female from Chennai who's interested in deeper than just bdsm, someone who wants to talk about life,get better together,whom i can talk to and share stuff as well, someone who wants to be heard and someone who listens. Someone who's interested in different topics, has their own opinion about life and the world, who wants to get better.
Now talking about s/m dynamic a willing sub who wants to explore it safely in a structured manner taking one step at a time.
I'm looking for a person who's not just driven by horniness who actually likes it, who loves letting go of control,who wants to shut her brain and just follow the lead. Someone who's scared to push herself but willing to try.
Who wants to learn, explore and serve,who knows its much deeper dynamic and dynamic goes beyond just sexual things,it forms a bond, connection.
Someone who knows how to communicate, someone who doesn't text a sentence and ghost, someone who's willing to put effort, who wants to live the dynamic and not just sext or roleplay but also wants to get trained.
**What'll dynamic look like**
It won't be a 24*7 dynamic we have life and we both will be busy. We'll get to know each other, we'll talk normally besides dynamic things or activities.And about dynamics
It'll start with proper thorough communication, discussing expectations, limits,setting rules and safe words to be safe.
It'll have rituals to follow to train your mind body into a submissive state; commands/tasks to do in daily life to feel the thrill, excitement aimed at making you experience the kinks you have; pushing you and your boundaries safely and scolding/guiding you when needed.
**My Kinks-** Brat taming, inflicting pain, testing endurance, resistance, Seeking Obedience, humiliation, degradation, guiding into right direction about life, pushing person's boundaries, orgasm control, orgasm denial, tpe, ddlg.
**I'll share my bdsm test results In chat so a person gets a better idea about My kinks**
Limits- scat, gore, racism, involving family members or religion in any sort.
**Everything about dynamic from kinks, rituals are negotiable.**
Once we talk and get comfortable verification is a must before getting into dynamic, it can be pic or voice till you get comfortable but it'll be a thing moving ahead because I don't wanna spend my time training a person who's either fake or doesn't wanna put in the effort.
(Ik it's hard to trust someone with your pic or anything that's why it won't be a thing till you feel safe or comfortable)
**Reach out to me putting efforts because I've put efforts; tell me about yourself, your kinks, about expectations, what caught your attention in post.**
If it resonates with the person who's reading, let's connect, talk and hopefully build a safe, wild dynamic.
Posted Sep 5, 2026, 3:47 PM UTC