34[M4F] I want a conversation that feels like a warm hug with a lot of "inappropriate" hand movement

Basically, life's not kind, but also short so just struggling through is not a good plan. Would love to have a nice conversation about your day, my day, your kinks, my kinks. Maybe sext, maybe discuss something controversial and then sext after we get angry at each other.

Im kind of a switch, but I'm not pushy unless you tell me I can go wild and what your limits are, so yeah I'm not a Dom Dom if you know what I mean, but I can get "mean" (in a good way)

On the "non naughty" side love taking about music, gear, pop culture, I basically write, arrange and record my own songs, sometimes I even make cover art and make my own gear. Again we could just talk about autumn being absolutely beautiful and how I can bend you over a park bench while no-one is around, you know