For as long as I can remember I have been strongly attracted to women in wheelchairs. Sure, I find able-bodied women attractive, but when I see a gorgeous woman rocking a TiLite ZRA wheelchair? No competition, a whole different ball game.

It's something I've learned to keep to myself for the most part, because not only do people see it as a bit odd, well, let's just say people with this attraction don't have a stellar reputation online thanks to the usual weirdos... but I would love a chance to prove I'm better than the reputation. 

I love how they look, how they move, how they've adjusted to living in the world, how their bodies are shaped. Their day-to-day stories and frustrations, their deepest dreams and desires. Basically everything about them I find attractive. It's not a power dynamic thing, it's not a caregiver thing, it just feels "correct" to me. 

I want them to be in my life, and to be in theirs in turn.

Now this is where statistics come in. Quite frankly there aren't many women compatible with this desire out there, so I'm at a bit of a disadvantage here. Even encountering one of these women in the wild is a low enough prospect, let alone one whose looks and personality I find attractive and compatible (and her to me, because otherwise what would be the point? The woman IN the chair is the main attraction for me, not the chair itself) so my dating pool may as well be a rounding error... 

And so I turn to Reddit. Maybe you are one of these women and this post has intrigued you, or maybe you're a wannabe/pretender/BIID\* and you've secretly wanted to see what it was like to live this life, or maybe something in this just caught your eye and you want to know more about it. 

\*please tell me so if you are, I'm super fascinated by it. 

I want to chat about this so bad, but as you can imagine it's not something I can exactly go screaming about in real life, so this is pretty much my only outlet for it. 

Or are you not in a wheelchair, but are interested in talking about it, or the dating and romantic or side of living with a disability? Then I'd love to talk to you too. Maybe it's something you've thought about in the past, or even a character you've fantasized about playing. 

I'd rather this was a texting RP than a story-based narrative, and we just talk about our lives and fantasies. I just don't really have any other outlet to talk about my feelings surrounding the whole thing. 

If you've read this far and it floats your boat use the word "Rosemary" so I know you've read this far. If this is up then it's open!

[M4F] Are you (or can you be) a woman in a wheelchair?