Do neurodivergent women just attract bad/horrible men?

I just got out of another terrible relationship with a cis man again. Thankfully, this time it was fairly short because I know my worth now. What’s up with these abusive and/or bad men seeming to flock to me? Is it also because I have trauma/PTSD besides the ADHD? I’m just tired of men thinking they can be shitty or abusive to me. It makes me want to just completely not allow cis men to be with me romantically or sexually anymore. It’s about to be cis women, trans women, trans men, and other trans folks because I haven’t had nearly the amount of problems with them in any way.

Do any of you ladies deal with the same issue? Are we just a magnet for them?