Advice on transient indwellings

Does anyone have advice on how to manage the urge for the next indwelling? They’re… lovely, and I totally get how people get obsessed with ritualizing the lead-up, but also excessive striving is supposed to not be great. I like the idea of being in flow, but it’s hard to simultaneously be in flow and also wishing I could be back in that moment and also wanting to know when the next one happens.

It seems like it happens every 2-3 weeks right now, but also, there’s a tiny fear it will never happen again. Has anyone found any way of dealing with this that is helpful?