Unattractive 27 year old woman

Advice Request

Hey everyone,I want to be completely real with you all. I am 27 and I am constantly horny. I want to stop watching porn, I don't want to do anything haram anymore, and I am done using adult toys. I don't want to play with myself anymore as I want the real deal. On top of that, I really feel like I want to have a child soon.

But here is the main issue: Im highly unattractive. I'm extremely skinny, unattractive, and very boring. I honestly feel like I have zero personality. I didn't go to university and I'm not smart. I didnt accomplish anything and I only work part-time in a shop.

Because of these insecurities, I would honestly be completely satisfied with becoming a second, third, or fourth wife to a man, as long as he is a good Muslim who can legally, financially, and emotionally provide for and take care of all his wives equally. Or I can only have fun with him in bed it's not really important to have kids. But I want someone who can satisfy me in bed. Is it haram to only want to marry someone because you want to have sex?

I currently live in Europe, specifically in Lichtenstein. Is anyone here interested, or does anyone have advice for someone in my situation? It's my first day on reddit so I hope someone can give me advice.

Posted Sep 5, 2026, 3:52 PM UTC

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