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Would you consider this a significant red flag or potentially disqualifying?

Looking for some honest opinions, especially from current/former LEOs or anyone familiar with backgrounds.
About 3 years ago, during a difficult breakup, I repeatedly called and texted my ex because I wanted to talk things out. She didn't want to communicate, but I continued reaching out for a couple of weeks before eventually stopping.
There were no threats, violence, or showing up at her home/work, and I haven't repeated this behavior since.
My application asks whether l've ever made harassing/annoying/threatening calls, texts, or online communications, and I plan to disclose it honestly.
Would you consider this a significant red flag or potentially disqualifying?

Posted Sep 5, 2026, 3:54 PM UTC

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