29 [M4F] #Germany #Europe On the search for someone to deeply and mutually connect with

Hey everyone, i hope you are having a great day and thank you for reading. Let me show you my "application" and let's see if you are interested in "hiring" me after that.

First things first: What am i looking for? I am searching for a person who would like to build a meaningful and deep connection which hopefully turns into something that involves mutual support and understanding for each other as well as having a lot of fun together in all avenues of life (i'll also take a cure for cancer and world peace, should you have those lying around by chance as well :D).

A little bit about me:

I am a 29 year old computer science student from western Germany, working on the side, in a related job to finance Uni and life. I am 192cm tall, no or short brown hair, depending on how i feel, a short beard, blue eyes, and even though I am pretty active, work out quite a bit for a while now and already lost 55Kg i am still a little on the heavier side and am currently actively working on changing that (with a lot of success i would say).

I have no problems with sharing pictures as the first thing in DMs, but am a little paranoid about sharing them publicly (comes with the computer science major), so feel free to say if that is important to you.

In terms of hobbies, I am the "traditional Nerd" type, enjoy gaming (if i find the time), anything computer related (building them, fixing them, tinkering with them), making jokes from hilariously bad to badly hilarious, deep conversations and just love to learn and explore new ideas and concepts, be that political, scientific, philosophical, or otherwise. Talking a night away, while jumping from deep dive to deep dive is probably one of my favorite activities :D. In addition to that i am also an avid and pretty decent cook and enjoy spending time in nature and being active in general.

A couple of the things that i often encountered in initial messages to check for compatibility to get them out of the way:

I am pretty left leaning politically, don't see myself wanting kids any time soon (if at all), don't smoke and don't drink (i wouldn't mind if my partner drank alcohol once in a while, smoking is pretty much a dealbreaker however). Should you have other questions that are similar to these or want to get a deeper idea why i feel a certain way, feel free to ask :)

In terms of kink, I would define myself as a submissive leaning switch but am convinced that labels only get you so far and the best dynamics are agreed upon on an individual basis. I find that i enjoy experimenting and making sure my partner and me have a good but also realized that any dynamic in which i am the dominant part exclusively simply is not for me.

I am relatively inexperienced doing kinky things IRL but have quite a bit of experience with online dynamics in addition to learning and researching into the topic of kink and healthy dynamics quite extensively. Consent, safety and mutual enjoyment are absolutely paramount to me and the things I did try so far, be that online or IRL, I almost exclusively enjoyed for those reasons. I find that writing long kink lists can get exhausting for all parties involved, so lets just talk about what we both enjoy privately, and i am sure we will find all the ways to have a great time together, be that in the bedroom or outside of it, kinky or not.

Hard limits include: Bloodplay, Scat, Smoking and any kind of permanent damage

What i am looking for in terms of a connection:

The most important thing in the connection i envision is being open and honest to one another as well as both putting the same amount of energy in.

Becoming friends, building trust and connecting with one another is really important to me and while i have no problem with having discussions about more intimate or kinky topics early on putting the connection to the other human being first is central for me.

I will take a hard truth over an easy lie any day of the week and want a connection with someone that allows for no thought being off limits to talk about to one another. In addition to that if you have a good sense of humor and enjoy talking about what you are passionate about we will have a great time.

Regarding you:

You should be based in Germany, eastern Belgium or the eastern Netherlands or there pretty regularly with a real interest and capability to meet IRL in a realistic time frame, once we got to know each other a little. In terms of language, both German and English are fine with me. It would be perfect if you spoke both because i prefer German for talking and English for kink, but this is not a deal breaker in any sense.

While i do think mutual attraction is important to an extend there are so many things that take precedence that i would say i do not have a "Type" or anything specific i am looking for in terms of appearance.

Age wise i am looking for someone between 24 and 40 with both of them not being hard boundaries (obviously 18+ though), as it is the age range i find myself getting along best with.

If you think this post sounds like something you could see yourself in feel free to just send me a message, telling me a bit about yourself or ask any questions you might have and let us get to know each other.