35 [M4R] Northern VA/Online | Seeking a platonic friendship, but mainly the occasional deep chat.

I am mainly looking for someone to talk to, get to know, and hopefully build an actual friendship with.

I am straight, but I am not coming into this expecting anything romantic or sexual. If we click as friends, that is completely fine with me.

I work at an elementary school and genuinely enjoy what I do.

Being a straight guy working in elementary education can be a little strange sometimes though. It is a very female dominated environment, so there are definitely moments where I feel like the odd one out. Nothing dramatic, just one of those things you notice when almost everyone you work with has a completely different perspective and social experience than you do.

That is probably part of why I would like to meet more people outside of work.

A little about me:

I am into manga, games, writing, philosophy, history, random thought experiments, and conversations that go way deeper than they probably needed to. I like people who can joke around but also actually talk about things. I am pretty laid back, sarcastic, and usually easy to get along with. I am also a dad, which is a big part of my life.

Between work and parenting I do not exactly have the easiest environment for randomly making new friends, especially other adults I genuinely connect with.

I am in Northern Virginia, so NoVa, DC, or Maryland would be ideal if meeting eventually sounds appealing.

Distance is not a dealbreaker though. I am perfectly happy just talking online if we get along.

If you message me, tell me your age, where you are from, what you do, and one subject you could probably talk about for hours. Extra filter : I'm 5'8.

Posted Sep 5, 2026, 3:58 PM UTC

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