I came to vent and ask if its a good thing I am out of the relationship i was in.

I came to vent and ask if its a good thing I am out of the relationship i was in.

In 2025, February I started to date my now ex. Everything in tue beginning was fine. Well as we continued to get closer I had set some boundaries and let him know things that were not okay with me. The first thing I asked was to lock his door, and the bathroom door as I felt highly disrespected that his mom would walk in on him changing, showering, peeing, butt naked. He said ok. Though he goes its only my mom. Fast forward to a couple months later I noticed hus pants getting really tight in the groin area, we walk around with my 6 ur old little girl. I asked him to get new jeans thay fit him appropriately or to wear longer shirts that I even paid for. He goes whatever. You are changing who I am. But still did it to "please me" as he said. I told him we walk around with my 6 yr old and your junk is showing fully through your jeans, please be appropriately dressed or you can't come.with us. Fast forward to we went out together for the weekend, his mom constantly called him, she was in hospital doing chemo, I didnt have an issue until it became every hour every minute when we were together. I even asked him did he want me to take him to go visit. He refused. Never visited. His mom blamed me and he never defended me. Fast forward to she being in remission, any time we had plans whether a gaming plan or having out. She needed him to do her trash or move her furniture, mind you she also has a full grown man boyfriend as well. Then it started to be every single day. Especially when she knew we plans. I said something to him to please establish some type of boundary. He said he will talk to her. Months go by and nothing ever changed. It came to a point to where she called me and told me to stop making plans with him. And that she will always come 1st before me and before kids if we have them. Then proceeded to call me a bitch and he still said nothing about it. Fast forward to us going to Disney. A vacation for him me and my family. She called me at midnight when we were settling down for bed. Then texted me. So he walked out on us having some intimacy to call her at midnight. And i was okay maybe its an emergency and it wasnt she just went to the hospital to get her gallbladder checked, and that nothing was wrong just wanted to let him know and I thought he would at least say something he still hasn't. Then we had plans for his birthday to take my little one to the movies then go to dinner. He canceled on me cuz his friend was throwing a party. A week later he ended the relationship stating there was too many rules for him.