both parents have 8h planets and I do not [astro.com]

My mother has saturn in aries in the 8h (i also have saturn in aries) and my father has venus in sagittarius in the 8h (i have a sagittarius stellium). My 8h is ruled by venus, taurus specifically. I’m genuinely wondering why it is that I feel such intense 8h themes in my life if I don’t have any planets there yet both my parents do??? I’m curious about what this could mean? I feel that i’ve inherited a lot of their unprocessed grief around love, limitations, and father wounds??? Yet my 8h is empty…..i’m wondering what this means karmically on their end vs mine.

Also i’m a end of life practitioner so I feel like my dynamic with parents has been all about longing, grief over what can’t be and loss in general??? I’ve known loss, grief and death all my life.