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Nenu Na Paithyam

I'm building a compatibility questionnaire based on a simple idea:

  • People reveal themselves through the questions they hesitate to answer, the questions they rush to answer, and the questions they wish had been asked.

There are 8 categories, 48 questions, and participants choose 4 categories and 3 questions from each. The goal isn't to optimize dating. It's to map curiosity, values, contradictions, and rabbit holes.

Some questions are about love. Some are about politics. Some are about cats.

In my mind, the whole thing is an Instagram reel of cats smoking cigarettes with hopeful captions over somber music.

What i will deliver:

A heat map of compatibility.

https://preview.redd.it/mljajh8g3qnh1.png?width=1883&format=png&auto=webp&s=2d52ae56f53a8b13d735b20821443fa6e9d0d96d

Other variable like what is the most/least picked question/category.

https://preview.redd.it/rm0n6cpy3qnh1.png?width=2621&format=png&auto=webp&s=1a3fb086e904f493ffcdbf2a40407f7153095a60

Fill if you are bored i will publish the results by tomorrow evening and based on the observed data will make it a better one next time (maybe next week). Will appreciate any feedback.

Made using Excel, Tally Forms, Co-pilot (just for formatting none of the questions are AI generated). Not a big tech guy.

Posted Sep 5, 2026, 4:00 PM UTC

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