my grandmother lowkey called me ugly

i was just in the car with my grandmother and she was talking about how beautiful my friend is. she said "she has such a beautiful smile. i mean, you have a nice smile too, but hers.... its just brighter than the sun."

fair.

then she goes on to say: "you know, its good that you go out with her so much. maybe when men approach her they'll talk to you too. sometimes they come to one for looks and stay for conversation."

i try not to worry about my appearance too much, but really? my own mama?

😭😭😭