What to do when you've been proven to be incredibly unattractive

No one has ever been even remotely physically attracted to me.

Never once in person, and no one that I've spoken to online has continued a conversation, no matter how good, after they got a picture of my face. This has happened hundreds of times, and that's without keep specific count. What exactly am I supposed to do when all I get is constant ghosting or "you're not my type" the instant I show my face? It isnt even like I want to; THEY ask for it. What am I supposed to do, go "sorry I'd rather not, you'll stop talking to me immediately after like everyone else" or some dumb shit like that since there isn't really any "good" way to deny that request.

And before you ask, yes I do try to get out and do things I like. My hobbies don't have a female fan base, and no one wants to talk at a library. I can't really develop new hobbies alone because anhedonia eats away at any chance i could habe to enjoy those things. (Yes, I'm in therapy. Yes, I'm on meds. Yes, I've tried multiple types of meds. No, none of them have worked).The type of women I want don't go to bars alone unless they're desperate and I don't want desperate.

So, what is the realistic option besides just giving up entirely? Or is that the only realistic option?