Overthinking Huniepop dialogue

Okay Polly wants a beautiful life like in the 50s and stuff. She says she wants a breadwinner that performs their perfect obligations. Like that's fine for a man.

But like wouldn't the perfect obligation for a woman (female player) be like ALSO a cooking and cleaning wife. Like obviously more masculine women exist even before the modern times. But that's not what was expecting of them (or at least in America).

I mean I can see Polly wanting a woman to take care of her and she's taking advantage of the fact they're in the 21st century, so she can have her cake and eat it too. But for all I know, she might want to be cute housewives together that take turns being the breadwinner.

Am I overthinking this?