Assistant coach

I feel like I am being pushed out of my own program. I have been with the HS for 17 years. I took on a Freshman coach 3 years ago possibly 5 BB games a week was too much. But over the past year she has been making decisions without me and overstepping with the HS girls and me. I know times change, but this past year has been a lot of change with my family and now I am seeing more of her ways in practice and games than mine. I have certain rules that I will fight for. She is just the opposite. I have been trying to look at it with a open mind. She has made some very good decisions, and I truly appreciate all of her help. She is very tech savvy, I am not. I need help telling her to back off a little. I really want to enjoy this year, with our cheerleaders. But I feel if I tell her to take it down a couple of notches, she will not be very kind. We both work in our small school. The community and school I believe like what our kids have done for the past 17 year's. We change things or add through the process. Our football team, cheer, band all get along great. I don't want to see any of our hard work changed.