Sleepover annoyance AIO?

Tell me what to make of this. My wife's birthday is today. She had a sleepover with her friends (3) here at our house. She didn't want to have a birthday party and wanted to be alone but her friends said they were coming over anyway. All was fine at first. Everyone was drinking. My wife drank too much and threw up in the bathroom. I put her to bed in my room.

I was annoyed that she drank so much although she has told me before that she has issues pacing herself. I was also annoyed that now I have to be the host and entertain her friends now who I barely know. I try to pull through as long as I can even though I didn't want to. We played some games. The friends ask me if I can bring her out. I said I could try, I had been checking on her a couple times and she was out cold. I assumed that time would be no different. I go into my room but then they all follow me in there. I didn't want them in my room.

They all start chanting at her calling her name telling her to get up and pulling on her feet and legs. I thought they were doing too much and being annoying bothering her when she clearly didn't want to get up. They start to leave and she leans up and pukes on the bed. I get annoyed because I feel like if we had just left her alone she wouldn't have puked again. I also thought it was disrespectful to come into my room and try to get her up. Am I overreacting or were they being bad friends?