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Snoo63039

My friend is abused by her bf behind closed doors, leeching off of her and sleeping with other girls.

He still owes her thousands of dirhams, and she desperately needs the money to pay off her loans. Otherwise, she could end up with a travel ban. What makes it even more frustrating is that he’s the one who has spent all of her money, which is also why she’s hesitant to let them go.
He broke her tailbone the last time he assaulted her, and this morning he broke down her door because she refused to give him her car keys. He doesn’t work or contribute financially in any way.
He constantly abuses her…giving her black eyes, putting pressure on her throat, and even kicking her while she’s asleep. He also invites his own friends over to the apartment, where they drink and eat her food, emptying out her fridge and leaving her unable to afford basic necessities.

What should I do at this point??

Posted Sep 6, 2026, 3:21 AM UTC

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