Why men are so mean to me...
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Okay, so me and this guy agreed to hook up. He proposed the date because he will be back in the city.
Before I continue, i want to state that I was NOT looking for a relationship with him.
Now continuing with my situation, after we agreed to the hookup he started avoiding my question of what was his current romantic situation until I told him I was being mad/frustrated because the reason I wanted to know was because I WILL NOT hook up with a man who is currently dating/seeing someone romantically. I have standards when it comes to casual situations, like this one. I told him I don't trust him because why he was avoiding answering if he is dating/seeing someone? He also used to hit me up at midnight or late at night, and initiate the convos and then respond with one word replies. I eventually explained I don't like being treated that way, and didn't like feeling I'm begging for basic communication. He apologized and said that wasn't his intention and he had just been busy. Next morning I told him I hoped he meant it because I wasn't going to stay in the situation if he continued treating me in that way. He replied "I slept on it", and then proceeded to call me a "psycho bitch" and that I was "insane". He then asked me if I wanted a hook up or a relationship and he immediately answered himself saying I wasn't getting the latter anyways because I was insane/crazy, He then started sexualizing me and basically said that my being "crazy" was why he had agreed to the hookup in the first place. I was genuinely confused because, I never asked him for a relationship. I asked for basic communication and respect, and not to be treated like I was disposable. I replied that I never asked for a relationship with him, and after seeing how he talks to me, I wouldn't want one anyway, I also said that I would not want to hook up with someone who talks to me like that, and sees me that way. He left me on seen.
Now I just want to know If I was being unreasonable or wrong at any point???
Posted Sep 6, 2026, 3:24 AM UTC