24 [M4F] Looking for a long term blackmail that results in tpe dynamic

As the title states, I want our blackmail to not only risk exposing you to your family and friends, but also result in you losing any freedom that you may have had before we met. While this is a kink, I would like the stakes to be very real (within consensual boundaries). After the blackmail is complete, every single action for the rest of your life that you’d decide to take would need to be approved by me and me alone. This is a very long term blackmail that I am interested in, so please only inquire if you are serious about committing long term.