i am amazed at the innocence of cis people tbh

sometimes i talk with my cis friends and it feels like they hate being their sex more than i hated being my asab. like i hear some guy speak about bs incel slop, complain about beauty standards, shitty patriarchal dating norms... meanwhile cis women keep complaining about men, beauty standards, being shoved into patriarchal abuse, etc...

and then theyre so close to realising how violent forcing ppl into sexed categories is and they just. give up??? like 'yeah well.... it sucks but yknow.... its just the way things are!!' cis people act as if they have no agency over their own sex and they have to just suffer through the shitty parts. there is not a single bone in their body that has ever imagined a world where they're their sex not because they have to, but because they want to. its crazy to me

i hate being a tranner because its brought me sm suffering, but at least im not fucking stupid. at least i dont just accept sex how it is and im able to take control of how i want to live it, at least i dont constantly wallow abt some bullshit rules as if they were divine orders