I suspect my Ex is rewriting the past to my college aged child

My child has always been a “daddy’s girl” and he’s always fed the kids misinformation to make him look like the victim. He committed an act of domestic violence that he now denies, but the children don’t know about it. But he is so afraid of them finding out, that he will do anything to coercively manipulate their perspective on what actually happened.

They don’t wanna know what happened even though my child is 18 and could find out at this point. I feel like my child is slowly drifting away from me based on what she’s hearing from her father. I’m now the bad guy in this whole narrative when all I’ve ever done is try to protect them from all of his drama and his desire to paint me as the bad person I do suspect he has borderline personality disorder.

Of course I’m not perfect, I did the best I could to shield them. It is breaking my heart and I just want to yell out - let me tell you the truth!!!

Posted Sep 8, 2026, 11:32 AM UTC

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