Would a personality based matchmaking app a good idea?
I know there are people here who have said that they found a guy/girl who somewhat matches their physical attraction and financial standards(rich/upper middle class/business background etc)
However,they still are not convinced with proceeding with the match in AM because their vibes with the opposite person,their ambitions in life,hobbies etc didn't match.
So would it be a good idea to start an app which allows you to set personality preferences first.
Based on the filters,later looks, financial status etc can be checked.
Once personality,ambitions, physical and financial attraction standards are met,there's a reasonable chance that these 2 people might become an actual match.
For ex, I talked with one introverted girl who was sharing her ambitions that she would like to run marathons with her future husband and open a film productions studio like SRK etc.
But she was almost unemployed with hardly any work experience(preparing for govt exams and looking for AM options etc)
She has ambitions but doesn't have a clear plan to achieve it.
I also talked with an extroverted guy who doesn't like to run marathons and stuff,but likes to work harder,get better jobs,financial status,buy a house/car etc for his family and chill(No major hobbies as such,just earn upgrade lifestyle etc)
Both people are not wrong, however their personalities,ambitions are different.
So if these two people matched forcefully in AM setting via relatives etc, basically the match won't happen.
So don't you think a personality,ambitions,vibes based matchmaking app would be a better place for AM/Date to marry etc?
Personality/Vibes/Ambitions etc could include:
1)MBTI reveal
2)Fast/Slow/Short reply/Long reply texting langauge
3)Call language: Short to the point conversations/Long drawn conversations
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Preference to settle within own country or abroad
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Preference live with or without in-laws
6)Love language- Letters,gifts,poetry,singing,dancing etc
- Financial ambitions
8)Anger management- Short tempered,Avoidant type, Temporary frustrations,ready to discuss any issues with partner despite existing frustration etc
9)Mental health preferences: Very peaceful/Workaholic type/BPD/OCD/Schizophrenic etc
10)Travel preferences: Extremely outdoorsy,likes hikes,beaches etc
Or limited travel, occasional domestic/international/spiritual trips etc
This list is not exhaustive,but all of you can give suggestions.
Posted Sep 8, 2026, 11:34 AM UTC